10. A variety of good Tinder pictures

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This time I did pretty much the same thing as flicking straight to the back of a math workbook and looking up the answer…. Notify me of follow-up comments by email. Profile writing is a little different on Tinder.

Sounds simple, but really, one picture is just suspicious. Brain fog is beneficial.

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Much of the pleasure of a steady relationship is that it liberates you from the anxieties of casual dating which is a total misnomer. You have to make your profile; curate a tableau of photos that captures your personality; write a witty description of yourself; seem equal parts funny, sexy and smart; swipe through dozens of profiles before making a match; weed out the flakes; come up with a witty opening line and then somehow keep the conversation going long enough to transition it to an IRL date. But I feel like having too many of those photos makes me look like your typical L. No one wants to get to a date only to realize the person looks different in person! The people who are attracted to how you actually look are the people who you want to date anyway, right? Then again, if fishing is your only genuine interest, by all means let me self-select out of your pool. I have some other photos of me hanging out with friends, but do women really care that I go to concerts or get drunk with my bros occasionally? Liz, 32: I really hate having to study group photos to try and figure out which samey-looking dude you are. If you have one great group photo, maybe put it at the end, but otherwise try to stick to solo shots so I can see YOU, not your bros. Lily, 25: Your first picture, as well as the majority of your other pictures, should definitely be solo shots for all the excellent reasons Liz has given. Bonus points if your token group photo is something that could start a conversation, like you and your friends underwater basket-weaving this is a real-life example. Is it chill to have a photo of me hanging out with another woman? I MUST DATE HIM IMMEDIATELY. Emily, 26: First of all, I am pretty sure the wedding band thing is not true? Go with well-lit solo photos where you are smiling and I will assume some nice woman took the photo for you, since men are, by and large, not great at taking flattering photos of each other. I hear puppies play well on dating apps. Better to use something you do have or enjoy as a prop. I personally have a selfie with a bag of hot Cheetos on my Tinder. Should I include photos of me holding him? Clearly I base all my dating decisions on bad social science. Gabrielle, 27: If the lil dude naturally appears in a picture you feel accurately summarizes your best self the way you look, the people you are with, the activities you are participating in and he is not the primary focus of the picture and you have the explicit permission of his parents, then maybe go for it. I just want to see a few photos that represent you and your interests so I can tell if we are going to have anything to talk about. Is it your actual kid? Way to be upfront about the realities in your life. Show your life and your interests realistically. But how do I do that without coming across as a huge jackhole? For example, my current description reads, Journalist and humor writer. Survivor I got bit by a lion in an animal park once. How would you rate that? Showing is always better than telling. Be funny, be smart, mention an interest or two, or go for absurdism. Steer clear of getting defensive or any sort of negging. What should a short guy do about his height? Lie by a few inches? Anne: List it and let the chips fall where they may. People do care about height! Sharone: Cosign, with this addition: Just include your height without being coy. The opening line is easily the most fraught part of online dating. What should I say when I do get a match? Sharone: Tinder is being foolish. Even if most women wanted to be told by strangers how attractive they are maybe they do? How was I supposed to respond to that? Instead, choose something that has a chance of taking the conversation somewhere beyond one or two replies. Emily: You have two options. But what if her profile is sparse? If her profile is nondescript, maybe try to pick something interesting out of her pictures. After how long can I suggest we take our conversation offline and meet for a real date? Liz: I like exchanging a handful of messages and then moving to a casual in-person date pretty quickly. But not everyone is the same! What kind of date is ideal? Just going for drinks seems uninspired, but also the right decision for a first-time, online date. Lauren: This is going to depend on the individual — not all women drink, after all! I prefer a sober but caffeine-fueled look at a potential sexual partner, which is why I tend to suggest coffee over drinks for a first date. I also prefer a well-lit, well-populated area that I can leave easily, just in case. Margaret: Not every date needs to be a huge creative event. Drinks and coffee are both totally fine options. One of the best dates I went on recently was going to a landmark in my city that essentially became just walking around talking for a while — moving around and seeing different things gave a lot of opportunities for conversational inspiration beyond standard small talk. Better to just avoid that, especially on a first date. I think most guys — certainly not me! On a scale of 1 to toxic masculinity, how bad is that mindset? Lauren: Many people use Tinder just to find hookups, and many people use it to find dates! Take a shower and change your sheets, but also mentally prepare for going home alone.

This will make your Tinder Bio seen more well glad. Conclusion The most popular guys on Tinder are attractive… much more attractive than average guys like you and I. Although text is not a deal breaker for me it gives me an idea of her personality and what I could say to her in communication. For you get your profile as close as possible to that sweet spot is the purpose of this article. You need a strong photo — or ideally, more like 3 to 5 VERY strong ones. It's like in that season of The Bachelorette where literally every guy met the same. These don't make you look like a desirable player. One more purpose for supporting Tinder photos People often wonder because they have nothing interesting to say. Informative All the key info is here, and it is aimed to attract the kind of girls that solo your common interests. There are more subtle ways to show off your body. At night I put on a mask and cape and fight crime.